Life is full of contradictions. For me it represents the coin, which has two absolutely different, independent and at the same time interrelated sides. But life is even more than alternative, it gives a wide range of possible realities. This statement also refers to such concept as marriage.
My Grandmother often says that if she had had the second life she would have not married not at any price. Almost all people imagine marriage as an endless happiness but the time passes and couples burden with variety of pursuits and duties. What inferences should we make from this? Without hesitation, it is stupid to hide behind the wall of alienation, people used to communicate and fall in love. What should we do is to work on good relations, we should support and treat love as sensitively as a delicate flower.
Married life is based on relations and feelings that preceded the years of living together. But moreover it depends on what people will further do, when they exchange wedding rings and face all the problems of routine life.
Marriage is neither an endless happiness nor lifelong burden for me, it is the work of two souls that eventually found one another but sometimes do not know what to do with each other. They love and feel hurt, quarrel and reconcile. But if couple strive for love, they’ll have a lifelong happiness.
