Sunday, 10 April 2011

What do men speak about when there is no woman nearby?


Men are from Mars, women are from Venus. That is exactly so. Sometimes these two worlds overlap and merge, nevertheless a definite personal space is always left for both men and women.
The question what men speak about being in absolutely male company seems obscure and vague for the fair sex.
Though, I used to play football with males, their conversations did not stick in my mind as something extraordinary and absoring. The sole fact that I was present as the only daughter of Eve there, may excuse such poor range of interests: sport games, computer games and their hunger for money as the means to buy something new either for this or that game.
The thing is, that men are boys deep in their souls, therefore their thoughts differ from women’s rational and realistic view of life. According to my investigation, almost all men enjoy talking about their work. Hobbies also top the chart, enveloping themes from fishing up to the computer games. Women are not so frequent topic for talking as the representatives of fair sex may consider. They stand on the same level of interests as favourite food and popular drinks.
Men have a specific sense of humor, which sometimes is not even understandable for women. Thus jokes which they really enjoy are pronounced purely between males. But themes change with age, and men turn their special attention mainly towards women and work, anecdotes and funny stories about own previous experiment.
I can conclude that men’s range of interests grows wider within the age and males have absolutely different taste than women. But frankly speaking, I think that it is good to have various tastes.

1
Sasha, 14 years boy
Computer games, music (bands)
2
Dima, 24 years old
Hobby (music, chess, computer games), girls, job
3
Viktor Andreevich, 65 years old
Work, funny stories about past, anecdotes, women, money
4
Andrey, 34 years old
Jokes and anecdotes, philosophical eternal questions, religion
5
Sasha, 25 years old
Women, ways to earn money, anecdotes

Monday, 7 March 2011

Is marriage a lifelong burden or endless happiness? (corrected version)

Life is full of contradictions. For me it represents a coin, which has two absolutely different, independent and at the same time interrelated sides. But life is even more than an alternative, it gives a wide range of possible realities. This statement also refers to such a concept as marriage.
My Grandmother often says that if she had a second life, she would never get married, not at any price. Almost all people imagine marriage as an endless happiness but the time passes and couples burden with variety of pursuits and duties. What inferences should we make from this? Without hesitation, it is stupid to hide behind the wall of alienation, people used to communicate and fall in love. What should we do is to work on good relations, we should support and treat love as sensitively as we treat a delicate flower.
Married life is based on relations and feelings that proceeded the years of living together. But moreover it depends on what people will further do, when they exchange wedding rings and face all the problems of routine life.
Marriage is neither an endless happiness nor a lifelong burden for me, it is the work of two souls that eventually found one another but sometimes do not know what to do with each other. They love and feel hurt, quarrel and reconcile. But if a couple strives for love, it’ll have a lifelong happiness.

Saturday, 19 February 2011

Is marriage a lifelong burden or endless happiness?



Life is full of contradictions. For me it represents the coin, which has two absolutely different, independent and at the same time interrelated sides. But life is even more than alternative, it gives a wide range of possible realities. This statement also refers to such concept as marriage.
My Grandmother often says that if she had had the second life she would have not married not at any price. Almost all people imagine marriage as an endless happiness but the time passes and couples burden with variety of pursuits and duties. What inferences should we make from this? Without hesitation, it is stupid to hide behind the wall of alienation, people used to communicate and fall in love. What should we do is to work on good relations, we should support and treat love as sensitively as a delicate flower.
Married life is based on relations and feelings that preceded the years of living together. But moreover it depends on what people will further do, when they exchange wedding rings and face all the problems of routine life.
Marriage is neither an endless happiness nor lifelong burden for me, it is the work of two souls that eventually found one another but sometimes do not know what to do with each other. They love and feel hurt, quarrel and reconcile. But if couple strive for love, they’ll have a lifelong happiness.